I used to make a punch bowl cake when we were first married, everyone loved it especially my husband.  Well somewhere over the years, the recipe disappeared and I have not been able to find it again.  I have tried a bunch of recipes over the years but none are the same.  They are usually very good, though none are the same.  I pulled several elements from different ones over the years and this strawberry pineapple trifle was so good, that it was already gone when I got to the dessert table.  People were asking for the recipe and scraping the bowl to get a little taste.  I got a…